Why It’s Important To Remember Long Forgotten Ancestors

Remembering long-forgotten ancestors in genealogy research is important as it honors their contributions to our family, even though they may not be in our direct line. In this blog post, I’ll tell you about a distant cousin and how my journey intersected with his.

This past week I spent time researching ancestors on my maternal side…the Dennis line of Giles County, Virginia. While I pieced together the family of Henry G. Dennis and Mary Jane Borden, it was their son, John Borden Dennis, who captured my attention. He is not a direct ancestor. As my 1st cousin 4x removed, there is nothing special about him, but I found his life’s journey interesting.

Giles County, Virginia

For reference, here is a map of Giles County located in southwestern Virginia on the West Virginia border.

Giles County, Virginia Genealogy, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/en/wiki/Giles_County,_Virginia_Genealogy: accessed 6 Sep 2023)

John B. Dennis’s Early Life

Born in the late 1850s in Pearisburg, Giles, Virginia, John stayed with his family through 1870. So far, I can’t find him in the 1880 census. My guess is he was moving west because in 1894 he resided in Santa Clara County, California, about 50 miles south of San Francisco.

The voter register for that year was very informative. It listed John Borden Dennis as a 37-year-old, 5’6 1/2″ tall with a fair complexion, blue eyes, and light brown hair. He worked as a laborer with a birthplace of Virginia, and residence in Moreland, California.1

Living Out West

By 1900 he moved closer to San Franciso, settling in San Mateo, California. He was a servant/laborer in the home of William Hull. Then by 1910 he relocated even further north to Tehama County, California, and worked for the Stanford Vina Ranch Camp as a hired man. 1920 found John near the Mexican border working as a hired man in Calexico, California. Did John move even more frequently? Possibly, but there are no records indicating this because the census is recorded only every 10 years. And as a poor laborer, there are no records for him I can find.

My Connection To John

You may ask yourself why I spent time researching a distant cousin who stayed single and moved around a lot as a laborer. I think it’s because my husband and I have worked and traveled through many of the same places John worked and traveled.

Rob and I vacationed in San Mateo, a beautiful place. During this trip, we ventured to Muir Woods National Monument north of San Francisco. I didn’t enjoy the winding road to get there, but the views were worth the headache!

tree in Muir Woods

Calexico is also a place that my husband and I know well. We have taken many truckloads out of there.

According to John’s death certificate, the Midnight Mission in French Camp, San Joaquin County was home to John for his final days.2 His burial is at the San Joaquin County Hospital Cemetery. Find A Grave states this cemetery was for those who died at the hospital and could not afford burial anywhere else.3

Death certificate of John B. Dennis - part of my maternal line ancestors

The company my husband and I used to drive for has a terminal in the next town over from French Camp. Another place we have in common.

I don’t know the details of John’s life. Was he happy moving around so much or did he do it just to survive? Did he stay in touch with his family back in Virginia? These are questions I probably won’t ever find answers to.

Finally

Since we just celebrated Labor Day, I wanted to recognize a true laborer from my past. I may not think of him again, but today, I remember him. Researching this man didn’t extend my family tree but it did fill it out that much more. It’s important to remember those overlooked ancestors who may not have anyone else to do so. They are just as important to your legacy as your direct line.

Genealogy tip: Look beyond your direct line ancestors for interesting stories. Take a little time to research their lives and you too may find similarities with those from your past.

Do you have ancestors you need to find? Please reach out as I’d love to help you find them.

1 Santa Clara County, California, Great Register, vol. 1894, John Borden Dennis; digital images, Ancestry  (www.ancestry.com: accessed 6 Sep 2023), image 65; citing FHL microfilm 977290.

2 “California, County Birth and Death Records, 1800-1994”, database with images, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:ZZ4N-G7PZ: accessed 8 Sep 2023), John B Dennis, 1935.

3https://www.findagrave.com/cemetery/2696068/san-joaquin-county-hospital-cemetery

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