Surnames As Middle Names May Be Powerful Clues

Do you ever wonder how people come up with their children’s names? Sometimes it’s easy if they are juniors or have a more common name like John or Elizabeth. And then sometimes you have to search a little deeper. In this blog post, you’ll discover how surnames are used as more unusual middle names.

scrabble letters for surnames

A Few Reasons Why Surnames May Be Used As Middle Names

Keeping Family Stories Alive: Adding a surname as a middle name was a way to remember where we came from. It helped to keep important family names going through the generations, especially in cultures that value family history.

Avoiding Confusion in Big Families: When many people in a family had the same first name, using a surname as a middle name was a way to tell everyone apart.

Honoring Special Family Members: Sometimes, adding a surname as a middle name was a way to show respect to someone important in the family.

Showing Family Connections: Using a surname as a middle name could also show when families joined together through marriage or alliances.

Preservation of Heritage: Some families use surnames to maintain a connection to their cultural or ethnic heritage. It serves as a reminder of their roots.

Honoring Important Community Members: Using the surname of a prominent member of the community wasn’t out of the question. I have an example of that below.

Examples In My Family

The Dettinger Surname

I wrote about my great-grandfather, Eli Bernard Stabley, in a previous blog post. You can read about him here. He and his wife, Ida Jane, had two sons, Bernard Dettinger Stabley, and Richard Luther Stabley.

The middle name of Luther came from one of Ida’s brothers. Bernard’s middle name, Dettinger, was Ida’s maiden name. It was common (and still is) to use the woman’s maiden name as one of her children’s middle names. Here’s Ida in 1947.

picture of Ida Jane Dettinger Stabley - used in my personal genealogy research - her surnames such as Dettinger were carried on through the family

Ida was born in York County, Pennsylvania in 1879 to John George Dettinger and Julia Dirk. Their family numbered twelve children with Ida right in the middle.

She and Eli married on 17 March 1903 in York County. According to the newspaper, they had a very sweet ceremony.1

clipping of wedding announcement of Eli Stabley and Ida Dettinger.

Ida passed away in February 1957. Her obituary is short but packed with plenty of information.2 Newspapers can provide such wonderful details of our ancestors’ lives.

Ida Jane Dettinger Stabley obituary

The McCampbell Surname

My second example is from my 3x great-grandfather, James McCampbell Ashmore. He was born in 1821 in Jefferson County, Tennessee to David H. Ashmore and Mary Shadden. He died there in 1895.

The name McCampbell sticks out as a possible surname, but after what seems like a never-ending search, I could find no one else in the family with that name. This is where researching the historical context of your ancestors comes in handy.

The census closest to James’ birth was in 1820, but searching for that was a bust. The 1820 census for Jefferson County, Tennessee is lost. So, I looked at the 1830 census. There is only one person with the surname of McCampbell in Jefferson County…John McCampbell – Rev. John McCampbell.

I would consider a minister to be an important man in the community, so I did a search that led me to a website giving the names of ministers from that time. One of those listed was John McCampbell, D.D.

We will never know for sure, but the fact that the name McCampbell is so unique and someone lived in the community with that surname – well, that’s a little too much coincidence for me. I’m hypothesizing that Rev. McCampbell meant something to James’ parents and that’s why James has the middle name of McCampbell.

Finally

So, just from these two examples, you can see how surnames might end up as one of your ancestor’s middle names. Examining the naming pattern in a family is so important in our genealogy research. Those surnames can surface anywhere and with anyone so keep that in mind when you’re looking for your ancestors.

Genealogy tip: If you are researching an ancestor and they don’t have a typical given name for their middle name, consider it could be a surname from a generation or two before or the maiden name of the mother.

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1 “Pretty Home Wedding,” The Gazette (York, Pennsylvania), p. 2, col. 3; digital image, Newspapers.com (www.newspapers.com: accessed 22 Oct 2019).

2 “Deaths and Burials,” The York Dispatch (York, Pennsylvania), p. 28, col. 1: digital image, Newspapers.com (www.newspapers.com: accessed 21 Mar 2020).

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2 thoughts on “Surnames As Middle Names May Be Powerful Clues

  1. This was such an interesting read! I never knew that using a woman’s maiden name as a middle name was such a common practice. It makes me wonder if there are any other naming traditions that were popular in the past. Do you have any other examples or insights to share?
    David
    Philly Local Support Initiative

    1. Hi David, I don’t have anything concrete, I just know that in my family history using a woman’s maiden name as a child’s middle name was fairly common. Here’s an article stating the same: https://www.familyeducation.com/family-life/relationships/history-genealogy/how-to-use-your-maiden-name-when-choosing-a-baby-name. As another example in my tree, Richard Dennis married Elizabeth Haskins and they named their last child Edwin Haskins Dennis.
      I’m glad you like the post! Have a great day…
      Gray

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